Olivia
Toll Free Number: 800-730-9391
Email me at Olivia@enchantrixempire.com
Are you looking for a mean Mistress? You probably are since you're here on this site. Now that we've got that question out of the way let's find out if we're going to be a good fit. Choosing the right mean Mistress doesn't have to be complicated. But, you will want to learn about any prospective Femdom Mistress to see if she is the right kind of Domme for you.
Don't let my smile fool you. I thoroughly enjoy being a mean Mistress. You know how certain writers--of books, movies, or TV shows--are accused of feeding off the tears of their readers or viewers? That's pretty much what I do. I want a coffee mug that reads "Subs' Tears" on the side of it because I believe in truth in advertising! LOL
Some women might tell you that your submission is a gift, and that's often true. For you, though, I say your submission is a weakness for me to exploit. I want to use you, violate you, humiliate you, degrade you, and do any number of other wicked things. And you're going to love every minute of it, you painslut. We both know that pain deepens your submission and is a quick path to getting you into subspace.
Pain becomes pleasure at the hands of a Mean Mistress
Yes, I enjoy inflicting pain. I am quite the sadist when I want to be. Have you heard the BDSM kink podcast I do with my friend Ms Erika? Check out The Weekly Hot Spot. There are lots of topics. For now, I want you to start with this episode from me and Ms Delia -The Submissive Guide to Rough Kink.
I restrain myself most of the time because I know most subs can't handle me at my most sadistic. But sometimes, I let it out on a willing participant, and it is sexy and cathartic for us both! There's nothing in the world that feels better than venting my sadism with, say, a paddle on a needy bottom...except maybe eviscerating you with nothing but my wicked tongue.
Verbal humiliation is pain for the brain
Verbal humiliation is one of my favorite things! In my experience, kinky people are really smart. We all like the paradox of BDSM - where submission becomes freedom and pain is pleasure. I personally like to use my sensual voice to say the meanest things, holding nothing back when I'm ready to humiliate and degrade you. If you're planning on requesting humiliation from me, be prepared; it's going to be a wild ride!Delicious agony of the mindfuck
I get inside your mind to discover all your wants, fantasies, and desires. It's not an idle or casual interest. I use everything I learn "against" you. Imagine what it feels like to have me play your fetishes off against each other and see which one wins out. The predicament play is intense. For example, what if I make you choose between extreme cock control, where where I lock you up in chastity (and throw away the key) and extreme humiliation, where I take all those things you're insecure about and skewer you with them? Which would you choose, and why?
Time to serve your Experienced Mistress
Be prepared to serve me well. As you can tell from my personal blog, I am the Experienced Mistress. I look forward to punishing you, bending you, and maybe even breaking you for my amusement. I'll put you back together in the end, sure, but there's no guarantee you'll ever be quite the same again. So beware and be ready.
Did you know I do a podcast with Ms Erika? It's called The Weekly Hot Spot podcast and has something for everyone! Check it out! Here's the link on Spreaker: The Weekly Hotspot.
A Mean, Strict Mistress Clears Up a Few Myths
by Ms. Delia of www.mistressofmean.com
A mean, strict Mistress is often thought of as a screaming, sadistic bitch, and while that can be true in certain scenes, it is emphatically not always the case. Mistresses who are strict know exactly what they want, and have the expectation that, as a good submissive, you will do exactly as you are told. Furthermore, you will do it well, with reverence, and let your true submission demonstrate how you adore your Mistress.
A Mean, Strict Mistress can also be sensual at times, but often that is a special type of scene. For the most part, Mistresses who are strict are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and often have submissives at their beck and call. But what are the myths about Mistresses who are strict? Let’s explore a few.
Myth – A Mistress Who Is Strict Screams and Yells At Her Slaves
For me personally, being a lifestyle Mistress who is indeed strict, I truly despise this myth! See, I believe if a Mistress screams and yells at her submissive, then something in their dynamic is not working. Instead of screaming, I feel that a good Mistress uses her tone, gestures, and how she looks at her submissive to maintain complete control!
A Mistress who is strict DOES maintain control, and if a submissive crosses a line, certainly there is a consequence. I will go so far as to say I do not think screaming, even in a degrading humiliation scene, has a place with a good Mistress, strict or not!
Myth – A Mean, Strict Mistress ALWAYS Uses Pain
This myth is simply not true. Let’s say your kink goals focus around a feminization transformation. Does there need to be pain involved in this? No! A Mistress who is strict would have rules, protocols, clearly spelled out expectations, and more to transform you.
Generally, in this scenario, pain does not play in at all. But what about punishment? Isn’t that always physical pain? No! Let’s say you are a pain slut, masochist, spanking enthusiast, or one who can’t get enough impact play. Pain would excite you, not be a deterrent. A Mean, Strict Mistress might choose to ignore you and give you mundane tasks as a punishment, and for some slaves that is pure Hell!
Myth – A Mean Mistress Always Wears Leather, Boots and Has Whips
This myth is actually very silly. BDSM Porn movies may facilitate this kind of thinking. As a strict, lifestyle Mistress, I actually do things like grocery shop, go out to dinner, go to appointments, work out, etc. Leather and stiletto boots are just not appropriate for those activities!
A Mistress who is strict “wears” a certain attitude and demeanor no matter her outfit! A pencil skirt, pumps and stockings, and silky blouse can be just as effective as any fetish type outfit. It is all in how Mistress carries herself. The outfit can enhance, but does not “make” the woman! What is inside her does!
There is no “one size fits all” with a Mean Mistress. Knowing this, be sure to provide your Femdom Mistress with all the information she needs to know about you. Perhaps fill out a BDSM Activity Chart to give Mistress a clear picture of who you are as a submissive. A Mistress will surely personalize training, rewards, and punishments, and lay out clear rules, expectations, and protocols for you!
Can you handle a true strict Mistress? Call one here at MistressOfMean.com and see if you can impress her!