

You are here because, apparently, you think you want a mean mistress. Do you truly want a mean mistress? Or do you just think you do? Maybe you like the idea of a mean mistress but the reality of having a mean mistress may be completely different from what you envisioned. There is a big difference, after all, between being strict and firm and being mean; a big difference between hardcore domination and cruel domination.
A mean mistress is just that; mean. Plain and simple. She's a mistress who is strict and demanding and even downright cruel at times in the pursuit of what she wants. ...and, make no mistake... it is all about what She wants! Mistress's pleasure is just that; Her pleasure.
I don't care whether or not you get pleasure from me being mean because this isn't about you. It is about ME and don't you forget that! If you are reading this and have even the tiniest inclination that I care about your pleasure, then you'd best move along to some other site or check out some other mistress's profile in the hopes that she only plays at being mean.
I will have you whimpering and begging me to stop, yet really craving more. I will reduce you to tears and have you in such a subspace that you most definitely will need aftercare when it's over.
Aftercare. Let's talk about that. Just because I am a mean mistress doesn't mean I don't understand and cannot or will not provide the necessary aftercare. In fact, I prefer open calls so there is time to have aftercare when the scene is finished, as needed. I will do cutoff calls as well but will pace it so there is enough time left at the end to have a bit of aftercare; aftercare that you most definitely will need by the time I am finished with you.
I've talked all about how I can be mean but let's talk about how, when discussing what you are looking for in session, during aftercare at the end of a session, and even in between sessions that I am a caring, sensual person. In fact, I believe it is my default caring, sensual nature that makes me such a fantastic mean mistress! I'm sure you've heard the saying about how people who are the most tightly-wound turn out to be the wildest and most uninhibited people once they finally let that spring unwind and it totally applies here. My go-to nature is sweet and sensual so when I finally have the opportunity in a controlled scenario such as this, knowing full well that this is what you want, I will really unleash my mean side!
Now that you have been forewarned, are you still brave enough to make a call? Prove it!

by Ms. Delia of www.mistressofmean.com
A mean, strict Mistress is often thought of as a screaming, sadistic bitch, and while that can be true in certain scenes, it is emphatically not always the case. Mistresses who are strict know exactly what they want, and have the expectation that, as a good submissive, you will do exactly as you are told. Furthermore, you will do it well, with reverence, and let your true submission demonstrate how you adore your Mistress.
A Mean, Strict Mistress can also be sensual at times, but often that is a special type of scene. For the most part, Mistresses who are strict are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and often have submissives at their beck and call. But what are the myths about Mistresses who are strict? Let’s explore a few.
For me personally, being a lifestyle Mistress who is indeed strict, I truly despise this myth! See, I believe if a Mistress screams and yells at her submissive, then something in their dynamic is not working. Instead of screaming, I feel that a good Mistress uses her tone, gestures, and how she looks at her submissive to maintain complete control!
A Mistress who is strict DOES maintain control, and if a submissive crosses a line, certainly there is a consequence. I will go so far as to say I do not think screaming, even in a degrading humiliation scene, has a place with a good Mistress, strict or not!
This myth is simply not true. Let’s say your kink goals focus around a feminization transformation. Does there need to be pain involved in this? No! A Mistress who is strict would have rules, protocols, clearly spelled out expectations, and more to transform you.
Generally, in this scenario, pain does not play in at all. But what about punishment? Isn’t that always physical pain? No! Let’s say you are a pain slut, masochist, spanking enthusiast, or one who can’t get enough impact play. Pain would excite you, not be a deterrent. A Mean, Strict Mistress might choose to ignore you and give you mundane tasks as a punishment, and for some slaves that is pure Hell!
This myth is actually very silly. BDSM Porn movies may facilitate this kind of thinking. As a strict, lifestyle Mistress, I actually do things like grocery shop, go out to dinner, go to appointments, work out, etc. Leather and stiletto boots are just not appropriate for those activities!
A Mistress who is strict “wears” a certain attitude and demeanor no matter her outfit! A pencil skirt, pumps and stockings, and silky blouse can be just as effective as any fetish type outfit. It is all in how Mistress carries herself. The outfit can enhance, but does not “make” the woman! What is inside her does!
There is no “one size fits all” with a Mean Mistress. Knowing this, be sure to provide your Femdom Mistress with all the information she needs to know about you. Perhaps fill out a BDSM Activity Chart to give Mistress a clear picture of who you are as a submissive. A Mistress will surely personalize training, rewards, and punishments, and lay out clear rules, expectations, and protocols for you!
Can you handle a true strict Mistress? Call one here at MistressOfMean.com and see if you can impress her!