Delia
Toll Free Number: 800-730-9391
Email me at delia@enchantrixempire.com
If you believe that I am going to be sweet and sensual with you, oh boy, have you come to the wrong place! Sure, I do have a sweet side, but not here! Here I am a Mean Mistress, a Mistress of Pain, and I can promise you will feel that pain whether it be physical or emotional. I get off on dishing it out! I have very high expectations! Know that when you call me, I expect you to be respectful, already on your knees, and ready to address me as Ma'am. You will speak to me with respect, and will fetch the implements I ask you to fetch. If you do not have exactly what I want, I will improvise with interesting things you have around your home. No paddle? Go grab a wooden spoon or a spatula. No rope to tie that cock? Dental floss will do just fine. Now, let?s discuss pain! Pain can hurt you physically or emotionally. Being adept in both areas, I truly adore hearing you whimper and cry on the other end of the phone. I will laugh at this. How weak are you really? For a pain call, especially CBT, do have the following items on hand, or I will make you list things in your kitchen so I can improvise:
- Paddle, flogger, ruler or wooden spoon.
- Clothespins, binder clips, nipple clamps, or a snake bite kit.
- String, rope, a shoelace, or dental floss.
- Toothpaste and brush. No, these are not for your teeth!!
- Low temperature melting candles and matches so they light.
- Cock ring, ball separator, or elastic bands.
- Anything else specific for your fetish.
- Food items
- Markers/Sharpies
- Panties
- A dildo
- Perhaps I will keep the rest to myself.
A Mean, Strict Mistress Clears Up a Few Myths
by Ms. Delia of www.mistressofmean.com
A mean, strict Mistress is often thought of as a screaming, sadistic bitch, and while that can be true in certain scenes, it is emphatically not always the case. Mistresses who are strict know exactly what they want, and have the expectation that, as a good submissive, you will do exactly as you are told. Furthermore, you will do it well, with reverence, and let your true submission demonstrate how you adore your Mistress.
A Mean, Strict Mistress can also be sensual at times, but often that is a special type of scene. For the most part, Mistresses who are strict are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and often have submissives at their beck and call. But what are the myths about Mistresses who are strict? Let’s explore a few.
Myth – A Mistress Who Is Strict Screams and Yells At Her Slaves
For me personally, being a lifestyle Mistress who is indeed strict, I truly despise this myth! See, I believe if a Mistress screams and yells at her submissive, then something in their dynamic is not working. Instead of screaming, I feel that a good Mistress uses her tone, gestures, and how she looks at her submissive to maintain complete control!
A Mistress who is strict DOES maintain control, and if a submissive crosses a line, certainly there is a consequence. I will go so far as to say I do not think screaming, even in a degrading humiliation scene, has a place with a good Mistress, strict or not!
Myth – A Mean, Strict Mistress ALWAYS Uses Pain
This myth is simply not true. Let’s say your kink goals focus around a feminization transformation. Does there need to be pain involved in this? No! A Mistress who is strict would have rules, protocols, clearly spelled out expectations, and more to transform you.
Generally, in this scenario, pain does not play in at all. But what about punishment? Isn’t that always physical pain? No! Let’s say you are a pain slut, masochist, spanking enthusiast, or one who can’t get enough impact play. Pain would excite you, not be a deterrent. A Mean, Strict Mistress might choose to ignore you and give you mundane tasks as a punishment, and for some slaves that is pure Hell!
Myth – A Mean Mistress Always Wears Leather, Boots and Has Whips
This myth is actually very silly. BDSM Porn movies may facilitate this kind of thinking. As a strict, lifestyle Mistress, I actually do things like grocery shop, go out to dinner, go to appointments, work out, etc. Leather and stiletto boots are just not appropriate for those activities!
A Mistress who is strict “wears” a certain attitude and demeanor no matter her outfit! A pencil skirt, pumps and stockings, and silky blouse can be just as effective as any fetish type outfit. It is all in how Mistress carries herself. The outfit can enhance, but does not “make” the woman! What is inside her does!
There is no “one size fits all” with a Mean Mistress. Knowing this, be sure to provide your Femdom Mistress with all the information she needs to know about you. Perhaps fill out a BDSM Activity Chart to give Mistress a clear picture of who you are as a submissive. A Mistress will surely personalize training, rewards, and punishments, and lay out clear rules, expectations, and protocols for you!
Can you handle a true strict Mistress? Call one here at MistressOfMean.com and see if you can impress her!