Harper
Toll Free Number: 800-730-9391
Email me at Harper@enchantrixempire.com
I almost want to start out by trying to reassure you that I'm not nearly as mean as I seem, but that might be a lie. I am pretty mean, if what you mean by 'mean' is strict, unbending, and demanding. I'm not cruel, though. Not callous or malicious, and I don't particularly enjoy trying to be heartless just because I can. There's always a reason behind any demands or instructions I give you, even if maybe you can't see that reason right off the bat. That's ok, you'll learn to trust me even if you're confused.
One thing I am, down to the bone, is dominant. I take charge, and then I remain in charge, and I expect obedience. Does that make me mean? I don't think it does, I think it just makes me demanding, but maybe you'll think it's mean of me to refuse to bend to your suggestions and pleading. You can do that, you know; you can beg and plead, suggest new variations on games we can play together, even tell me outright what you'd like to experience with me. I might take your suggestions or decide to reward your obedience with something you've begged me to give you, but then again, I might have a larger plan in mind and refuse you.
I should warn you, too, that I am a sadist. Not in the scary movie version of sadist, I'm not gonna chase you around with rusty garden implements and demand you put the lotion on or else you get the hose. I'm a sadist in the actual real world definition of the term. I find other people's suffering to be really hilarious. It doesn't turn me on, I'm not a sexual sadist, but I will absolutely laugh at your predicaments and when you start crying for help. Oh, and I do have dacryphilia, in that your tears DO arouse me. So feel free to cry, and don't worry if I first laugh at you and then torment you so you cry more.
Don't be afraid to contact me, I may be a sadist and a little bit mean, but I'm nice, too. And, lucky you, I'm aware of all my weaknesses and foibles, so you don't have to worry at all about whether or not I'm going to play head games with you and manipulate you for my own gain. (I absolutely will, just, I'll wait until you agree to my games first. See? Ethics!)
I'm Harper, and I can be your Mistress if you'd like, but you're gonna have to approach me first. So be brave, and admit that you need to be owned and controlled by a dominant woman like me. I'll take such good care of you!
A Mean, Strict Mistress Clears Up a Few Myths
by Ms. Delia of www.mistressofmean.com
A mean, strict Mistress is often thought of as a screaming, sadistic bitch, and while that can be true in certain scenes, it is emphatically not always the case. Mistresses who are strict know exactly what they want, and have the expectation that, as a good submissive, you will do exactly as you are told. Furthermore, you will do it well, with reverence, and let your true submission demonstrate how you adore your Mistress.
A Mean, Strict Mistress can also be sensual at times, but often that is a special type of scene. For the most part, Mistresses who are strict are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and often have submissives at their beck and call. But what are the myths about Mistresses who are strict? Let’s explore a few.
Myth – A Mistress Who Is Strict Screams and Yells At Her Slaves
For me personally, being a lifestyle Mistress who is indeed strict, I truly despise this myth! See, I believe if a Mistress screams and yells at her submissive, then something in their dynamic is not working. Instead of screaming, I feel that a good Mistress uses her tone, gestures, and how she looks at her submissive to maintain complete control!
A Mistress who is strict DOES maintain control, and if a submissive crosses a line, certainly there is a consequence. I will go so far as to say I do not think screaming, even in a degrading humiliation scene, has a place with a good Mistress, strict or not!
Myth – A Mean, Strict Mistress ALWAYS Uses Pain
This myth is simply not true. Let’s say your kink goals focus around a feminization transformation. Does there need to be pain involved in this? No! A Mistress who is strict would have rules, protocols, clearly spelled out expectations, and more to transform you.
Generally, in this scenario, pain does not play in at all. But what about punishment? Isn’t that always physical pain? No! Let’s say you are a pain slut, masochist, spanking enthusiast, or one who can’t get enough impact play. Pain would excite you, not be a deterrent. A Mean, Strict Mistress might choose to ignore you and give you mundane tasks as a punishment, and for some slaves that is pure Hell!
Myth – A Mean Mistress Always Wears Leather, Boots and Has Whips
This myth is actually very silly. BDSM Porn movies may facilitate this kind of thinking. As a strict, lifestyle Mistress, I actually do things like grocery shop, go out to dinner, go to appointments, work out, etc. Leather and stiletto boots are just not appropriate for those activities!
A Mistress who is strict “wears” a certain attitude and demeanor no matter her outfit! A pencil skirt, pumps and stockings, and silky blouse can be just as effective as any fetish type outfit. It is all in how Mistress carries herself. The outfit can enhance, but does not “make” the woman! What is inside her does!
There is no “one size fits all” with a Mean Mistress. Knowing this, be sure to provide your Femdom Mistress with all the information she needs to know about you. Perhaps fill out a BDSM Activity Chart to give Mistress a clear picture of who you are as a submissive. A Mistress will surely personalize training, rewards, and punishments, and lay out clear rules, expectations, and protocols for you!
Can you handle a true strict Mistress? Call one here at MistressOfMean.com and see if you can impress her!