

You are HERE for the control of a strict, mean Mistress. Struggle to please me while I remind you viciously why you never will. Your failings, shortcomings, and inadequacies will all be glaringly obvious to me, and I will unpack every single one and deride you for being the underwhelming disappointment that you are. Will it be difficult for you to hear? Without question. Is it possible that the harsh, unyielding truth will hurt your feelings? Absolutely, but here's the thing... I do not fucking care. I am not here to mollycoddle you. I am here to shine a glaring light on your weakness. It is my mission to break you down and expose the impotent, quivering mass of insecurities that you are. You will crave any crumb of my approval like it is your next breath. Good luck with that because your weakness disgusts me.
Take note. I am not a shrieking banshee barking orders and ranting at full volume. No, when I speak, I expect to be heeded and obeyed immediately and without question. If you don't want to obey, I can only assume that you don't want to be here. If you don't want to be here, then do not waste my time.
The ferocity, the cruelty, the derision, and the humiliation all combine to make a powerful, heady cocktail of my power, control, and authority as you cower and grovel under the heel of my boot. You're not worthy. You never will be. You should remember that because I certainly will. Gather up all of your kinky toys and tools before you call me. You're going to participate in your own torment, like it or not. And then settle in for a long, excruciating tour of your own failings. When I'm done, you will feel like I have chewed the flesh from your bones and left nothing but teeth marks. You lucky little bitch.

by Ms. Delia of www.mistressofmean.com
A mean, strict Mistress is often thought of as a screaming, sadistic bitch, and while that can be true in certain scenes, it is emphatically not always the case. Mistresses who are strict know exactly what they want, and have the expectation that, as a good submissive, you will do exactly as you are told. Furthermore, you will do it well, with reverence, and let your true submission demonstrate how you adore your Mistress.
A Mean, Strict Mistress can also be sensual at times, but often that is a special type of scene. For the most part, Mistresses who are strict are involved in the BDSM Lifestyle, and often have submissives at their beck and call. But what are the myths about Mistresses who are strict? Let’s explore a few.
For me personally, being a lifestyle Mistress who is indeed strict, I truly despise this myth! See, I believe if a Mistress screams and yells at her submissive, then something in their dynamic is not working. Instead of screaming, I feel that a good Mistress uses her tone, gestures, and how she looks at her submissive to maintain complete control!
A Mistress who is strict DOES maintain control, and if a submissive crosses a line, certainly there is a consequence. I will go so far as to say I do not think screaming, even in a degrading humiliation scene, has a place with a good Mistress, strict or not!
This myth is simply not true. Let’s say your kink goals focus around a feminization transformation. Does there need to be pain involved in this? No! A Mistress who is strict would have rules, protocols, clearly spelled out expectations, and more to transform you.
Generally, in this scenario, pain does not play in at all. But what about punishment? Isn’t that always physical pain? No! Let’s say you are a pain slut, masochist, spanking enthusiast, or one who can’t get enough impact play. Pain would excite you, not be a deterrent. A Mean, Strict Mistress might choose to ignore you and give you mundane tasks as a punishment, and for some slaves that is pure Hell!
This myth is actually very silly. BDSM Porn movies may facilitate this kind of thinking. As a strict, lifestyle Mistress, I actually do things like grocery shop, go out to dinner, go to appointments, work out, etc. Leather and stiletto boots are just not appropriate for those activities!
A Mistress who is strict “wears” a certain attitude and demeanor no matter her outfit! A pencil skirt, pumps and stockings, and silky blouse can be just as effective as any fetish type outfit. It is all in how Mistress carries herself. The outfit can enhance, but does not “make” the woman! What is inside her does!
There is no “one size fits all” with a Mean Mistress. Knowing this, be sure to provide your Femdom Mistress with all the information she needs to know about you. Perhaps fill out a BDSM Activity Chart to give Mistress a clear picture of who you are as a submissive. A Mistress will surely personalize training, rewards, and punishments, and lay out clear rules, expectations, and protocols for you!
Can you handle a true strict Mistress? Call one here at MistressOfMean.com and see if you can impress her!