Can You Handle a Mean and Strict Mistress?

So, you think you want a Mean and Strict Mistress. But do you really believe you can handle a truly cruel Mistress? I know you think that maybe you can. Still, what if she is more than just your imaginary version of mean? Are you ready for a Mistress, unconcerned about your happiness, to control you?  For her own amusement and entertainment?

That’s what I am here to help you figure out. You need to know if you can handle what a Mean Mistress may choose to do with you.  On the other hand, are you just wishing for someone to be a little bit stricter with you? Whatever you discover is okay with us.  We just don’t want you to start down a road with a Mean Mistress, only to hurt yourself.  *giggle*  Or, more importantly, to piss her off.

So, here are five ways to help you know if you can truly handle a Mean Mistress.  Although, no matter how prepared you may think you are, you can never really be ready for us.

Strict Mistress Control and Punishment

First of all, you know you deserve to be punished. Believe it or not there are men who do not really believe they warrant punishment. They say they want discipline. Instead, they really just want to continue all the naughty things they should not be doing. They want to play with their cocks and not receive their chastity penalty. They whine when things happen that they don’t like and truly cannot understand why they are in trouble.

A Strict and Mean Mistress is not going to tolerate someone who is constantly whining and crying about things not going their way. They aren’t going to listen to you complain nor negotiate with you. Maybe you just think you want Mean because your Strict Mistress isn’t strict enough, in your opinion. However, you may not realize where this leads. Which brings us to point number two.  If you know, without doubt, that your Strict Mistress is not strict enough for you, then you are ready for a Mean Mistress.  Most probably.

Do Not Disobey a Mean and Strict Mistress

Sometimes you just like to push and try to get away with things. A Strict Mistress won’t allow that at first. Eventually, if you continue, she may start to believe that you really do want to do it and since she is strict not mean, she might let you get away with a few things. A Mean and Strict Mistress will never do that. She doesn’t care what you want or how many times you ask for it or ask her not to do it. She is going to do exactly what she wants, when she wants, no matter what.

Thirdly, do you appreciate being controlled in all ways?  Some men want to be told not to stroke.  Nevertheless, they don’t want to be in chastity where they cannot stroke, if they change their mind. A Mean Mistress doesn’t want to be bothered with listening to you whine about stroking. Consequently, she will lock you up.

You get to stroke if you are let out of your cage.  If not, then clearly you can’t.  Hence, there is no further discussion on the topic. She will also control when you talk to her, what you wear, maybe even what you eat. She will certainly tell you which toys she allows you to have.  Not to mention, if and when you get to have an orgasm.

I wouldn’t count on too many of those from a Mean and Strict Mistress, though.  Unless she is using them to humiliate you, by proving that you will get excited and cum, even when you claim you don’t like something. That’s always good for a laugh.

A Mean Mistress Never Seduces 

If you ever, even once in a while, like to have your Mistress seduce you, then you do not want a Mean Mistress. She is not going to put you or herself into a seduction scene where she is tempting you with her body or words to get you excited. You need to be excited by how cruel and mean she can be, not wait for her to turn you on.

If you aren’t turned on by the fact that she has allowed you to be in her presence, then you might want to think about avoiding a Mean Mistress. She is someone you will need to be excited by, just because she is there, not because she tried to turn you on.  She will never attempt to do that, even though she is gorgeous and sexy and would have no problem with it.  She’s not that type of Mistress.

So, if you think you can really handle a mean and strict Mistress, then come see us.  We’re happy to make you wish you hadn’t, even while you get far too excited to ever leave.