Humiliation: What It Is and How a Mean Mistress Uses It


Many men have inherent desires to serve dominant and powerful women.  Oftentimes, that includes a need for humiliation. They so badly want to give into their feelings of submission.  Still, there is always something that prevents them from yielding completely. Sometimes, the first step into submission is a therapeutic admission of your fetish.

You have to start by explaining your fetish to your Mean Mistress. Admitting your desires to your femdom will not only help her to guide you along your new journey, but also will help you to learn some humility through this inglorious admission. Humiliation is a powerful tool.  Your Mistress utilizes it for many reasons. It is psychologically complex and provides a number of behavioral shaping tools. In addition, humiliation fulfills the need to be debased that many men have.

According to the dictionary, humiliation has 3 basic definitions, as follows:

1. state of disgrace or loss of self-respect

2. chagrin: strong feelings of embarrassment

3. an instance that forces one to lose his prestige or self-respect; “He had to undergo one humiliation after another.”

These definitions are important to remember, as they are the basic building blocks of sexual humiliation. This is basically the systematic breakdown of the human psyche, after which the Mean Mistresss rebuilds it, to meet her standards. Humiliation is a tool of sexual psychological warfare to which the submissive submits willingly.


How Erotic Humiliation Works


For humiliation to be effective in the sexual context, it must be somewhat sexual in nature. Wikipedia defines erotic humiliation as “the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby one person gains arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned, or of humiliating another; often (but not always) in conjunction with sexual stimulation of one or both partners in the activity.”

Generally speaking, men are aroused by things such as small penis humiliation and being humiliated for not being unable to sustain arousal. For other men, mistresses use various punishments and/or spanking, which shape almost any behavior! Whether mistresses humiliate the submissive  publicly or privately depends on how a mistress wants to use it as a tool.

It is important, however, that you remember that there is a significant difference between humiliation and dominance. Often, when men seek humiliation, a Mistress “ordering them around” is simply not enough. They wish to feel that sexual force pushing them to engage in a task (foot worship, ass worship, spanking, wearing panties, etc.). Humiliation comes from shared attitudes of the people involved. The Mean Mistress does not just control, but degrades the male submissive.

Humiliation comes in a number of different forms and methods when performed by any Mean Mistress. It is almost certain that you have been fantasizing about your own personal humiliation for quite some time.  Now, you have no choice.  Admit to your Strict Mistress your dreams of  humiliation.


 Men Especially Like It This Way


Some forms of humiliation that are more popular are verbal humiliation and physical humiliation. Both verbal and physical humiliations can vary in both intensity and design. There are many creative ways to utilize both types of erotic humiliation when attempting to reshape a new or unruly male submissive.

During verbal humiliation, a strict femdom may belittle and degrade her male submissive. She will also make slights at the shortcomings of his manhood and overall physical appearance. Often, he will have to ask for permission for what was once considered a common task. Male submissives  excessively flatter their Mean Mistresses, while Mean Mistresses mock and ridicule them.

There are many ways to be physically humiliated, but there are some that appear to be more prominent in male fantasies than others.   Having their Mean Mistress spit in their faces arouses many men.  During many forms of physical humiliation, Strict Mistresses require men to worship, massage and orally please them.

To be told to wear feminine clothing or, even worse, to be locked in male chastity are two more ways to erotically humiliate men. Micro-managing, suppressing movement and/or privacy, and even standing in the corner are all forms of erotic humiliation.  They help men recognize their servitude to their Mean Mistress.

Humiliation is a powerful sexual tool that can be utilized by a Mean Mistress in order to train her male submissives. No matter how wrong it seems, erotic humiliation arouses you. There is no denying you intensely need humiliation phone sex with a mean Mistress.